Poppers and BDSM – Field Report from a Master
One of the main reasons people enjoy BDSM play is its intensity and extremeness. Poppers also intensify many aspects of sexual activity, from desire and arousal to pleasure and euphoria. This makes poppers and BDSM a natural pairing, as each one enhances the other.
Advantages of Poppers for BDSM
Using poppers for BDSM makes the experience so much better than using either one alone in so many ways.
Improved Erections
As a top, I’ve found personally that, when I use poppers for kink, my hard-on is harder and longer than it is at any other time. The way it rushes the bloodstream into the penis also makes that more massive erection come on instantly and stay there. The warmth of all that concentrated blood also makes the penis and groin area all the hotter, which only increases sexual desire, passion and euphoria.
That super-erection, in turn, allows me to bring even more pleasure to my bottom–when the time is right for that, of course–and, in the meantime, tease and torture him more relentlessly.
Use poppers for kink along with Bangers C-Rings soft silicone jock C-ring to keep that surging blood flow contained in the penis and balls, making the erection even fuller and longer-lasting than with a cock-ring or BDSM poppers alone. This also makes the euphoric explosion of orgasm and ejaculation even more intense when it is ultimately permitted.
The erection that the submissive gets from using poppers for BDSM, meanwhile, can also enhance play, such as if the top is preventing the submissive from touching their erection or deriving any pleasure, relief or release from it until given permission to do so. This applies whether such restraint is applied strictly verbally or is supplemented with physical restraints like chains, handcuffs or CalExotics Scandal BDSM Rope. The intensity of the erection only makes this experience more intense, especially if the submissive is wearing a ManCage Cockcage Chasity penis cage.
Oral
At the same time as BDSM poppers make the hard-on bigger, they also make the throat more open and relaxed to take it in. This allows the top to plow the bottom’s face much harder and deeper than he otherwise could.
Anal or Vaginal Play
See above about the advantages of BDSM poppers for oral sex, as the same applies to anal and vaginal play. As a vasodilator, poppers relax the muscles of the anus and vagina, making it easier and more comfortable for the receptive partner to take the swollen member or a larger fist, dildo, anal plug, anal beads or other penetrative sex toy.
Creativity
One of the most thrilling aspects of BDSM is all the various ways you can change things up and make each experience different and unique. The advantages of BDSM poppers help enhance these options as well as allow for a whole new level of creativity to enter the scene.
For example, poppers can not only send blood surging to the penis; they can send it to BDSM-related marks and injuries like cuts, welts and bruises. This can significantly enhance and intensify the sensations produced by such BDSM activities as flogging, paddling and whipping.
I remember one group session in which submissives were locked in individual cages with no room to move. Everyone at the party had some of the best poppers for kink on them, and every so often, one of us would approach one of the cages and stick in our hand to give the submissive a whiff of poppers. When it wasn’t poppers shoved into those cages, it might have been fingers for “tickle torture” or hard-ons for probing. What forms of delicious, consensual torture we were meting out on our subs they experienced more intensely because of the poppers. What’s more, since the subs weren’t in control of when they would inhale the poppers and when they wouldn’t, the providing and withholding of the poppers further enhanced the torment.
Best Poppers for BDSM
Which poppers are best for your BDSM sessions depends on your desires.
Strength
Given the sheer intensity of BDSM scenes, the obvious choice for the best poppers for BDSM would naturally be the strongest poppers. For example, BDSM ULTRA Poppers are among the most potent poppers we offer. They’re made with a pentyl nitrite based formula and come in both 10 ml and 24 ml bottles. So, depending on how long you intend for your scene to last, you can make sure you have enough BDSM poppers on hand to keep you covered.
Variety
Of course, if you’re really planning on going all out (or “all-in,” as the case may be) there’s nothing better than having the right poppers on hand for the right moment in your play. For example, you may want one type of BDSM poppers for oral play, one for anal play and one for impact play.
That’s what makes the Extreme Play Hard Poppers Combo pack so great: it gives you three different poppers on hand, those being BDSM ULTRA Poppers, GLORY HOLE Poppers and BOOSTER Poppers. This gives you the power to choose the perfect poppers to use at the perfect times.
Another of the big advantages of poppers for BDSM that come in a combo pack is that, by constantly changing up which poppers you use at any given moment, you help maximize their effects. If you’re one of those people whose experience has been that using the same formula over and over again eventually leads to a higher tolerance for that formula, having a variety of poppers for kink on hand helps to thwart that tendency during your sessions. For example, the Play Deep Poppers Combo includes GLORY HOLE Poppers, BLACK FIST Extra Strong Poppers and BDSM ULTRA Poppers to help keep the ecstatic rush and the high you get from it more fresh.
Extreme Play Hard Poppers Combo 3 x 24ml Poppers
Play Deep Poppers Combo
BDSM Poppers Safety
Safety is paramount with both BDSM and poppers alike. When it comes to BDSM, that’s the whole purpose of safewords; and a good top knows exactly how far to go and exactly when to stop. The same applies when using poppers for kink. There is such a thing as taking in too much poppers at once, and it takes responsibility and awareness on both (or all) partners’ parts to ensure that every session remains a safe session.
Proper Poppers Dosage
Among the benefits of poppers is increased desire and arousal and lowered inhibitions; it is, therefore, necessary to avoid any lapses in judgment they may cause, especially when in a potentially dangerous scene. That’s why it’s important to go into each session knowing how much poppers you can give or receive in a given period of time.
Combining Substances
Two Ways to Be Safe When Using Poppers for Kink
There are two great ways to promote safety when using poppers for BDSM. One is for only one participant–ideally the dominant participant–to refrain from using them, and therefore be able to administer them to the submissive participant with full cognition and clarity regarding how much and how often they’re receiving it. The other way is to determine ahead of time exactly how much to use at what intervals before beginning play, then adhering to those decisions.
When using BDSM poppers in particular, which tend to be stronger than regular poppers, this is extra important, as a little can go a long way. If you’re new to combining poppers and kink, start out experimenting with light and infrequent doses and only up the amount or frequency as you get more of an idea of the effects.
Remember as well, every person’s body is different, so don’t assume that the dosage that’s perfect for one participant will be perfect for another. Always take each situation individually with a fresh focus on safety.
If you notice any of the following effects while using poppers for BDSM, cease using the poppers and pause the BDSM session:
- Difficulty breathing
- Severe drops in blood pressure
- Reduced blood oxygen levels
- Heart arrhythmia
- Seizures
And if these reactions persist or seem severe, seek medical attention immediately. Don’t let embarrassment or shyness keep you and your partner from being safe and secure enough to keep coming back to the bedroom, dungeon or kink party for more. Never forget that irresponsible poppers use can cause brain damage, coma and even death.
Whether you’re an experienced BDSM dom or sub or you and your partner are simply looking for ways to spice things up in the boudoir, BDSM offers many opportunities. Poppers can help enhance those activities in numerous ways. Just remember that quality and communication are key in ensuring every session is as fun and satisfying as can be without risking safety.